Yesterday on my trip from Guangxi to Guangdong for transit, I had a little glimpse of the local Chinese newspaper.
One minute of self confession before going on with the non-story: I AM an extremist.
There was a time that I doubted myself so much whether I should stay in the legal industry after much efforts being put to improve myself to be more fit in the lawyering scene. Because lawyers are supposed to be calm and objective. Look at them, they are seldom extreme about anything. None of my lawyer friends is easily getting agetated actually. To be in line with the unspoken rule in pratice, I have tried to keep my extreme (crazy/mad/subjective...) ideas from any peers. This results in that I am less extreme now. But, in the breaks, I still got an appetite for kinky stories and things.
Some minutes of the readers (if any) of this post and of myself would never come back.
Continue with my trip. So I saw an interesting article about a UK lecturer teaching in some universties in Shanghai on [subject], who also happens to have been blogging on his private life in great details, has been condemned by a Chinese professor (for phychology if I recall correctly). The condemnation goes in this way: the Chinese guy firstly let the press know all the 'nasty things' that the UK guy did to the Chinese girls. And second stage would be endeavours are to be made to kick the guy out of China.
I couldn't help but think of this as another show, some how I wish I were not able to read Chinese to learn about the ugly thing. It was even too moronic to be propoganda. It won't do anything good unless to the sudden attention on himself. Later I saw some posts on my frequent forum, where some anonymous guests leave comments which are totally out of blue, such as Shanghainese are so submissive to foreigners. I didn't know any interlink between that comment and the newspaper article. I just know some people just don't like Shanghainese so much that anything that is not considered decently done is done by Shanghainese, more specifically, Shanghai girls.
Why I don't read the UK guy's blog frist before holding an negative view towards the Chinese professor? because I can't access it? Nay. I have got the access to the foresaid blog, thanks to the links posted on China Herald.
It is due to the reason that i don't like the appearance of the Sex And Shanghai (SAS) blog so much that it keeps me from reading any further, despite how juicy the contents might be. Too subjective? Yea.
A better reason would be- whatever have been blogged there, has little relation to the allegations that the Chinese professor made. The Chinese professor claimed that the SAS blog and the posts therein have severely darnished the reputation and 'image' of those Chinese girls who have been mentioned in the posts as well as such of all Chinese people. It hurts him that some Chinese girls were played by this UK guy. (might be not the same word as it was based on my memory). How ridiculous.
This sort of news steals people's eyeball majorly. I am interested in how the media gather their denominator. It happends all the time. Remember the Shanghai bar association wrote a memo to the department of justice on how foreign firms have violated Chinese law and take up too much market share? It didn't expressly say in the memo that the foreign law should be kicked out of China pratice, BUT if the authority decides to do what is proposed in the memo, i guess a lot of law firms got to shut down. (based on some post i read before) Do you find the resemblance in the two case?
Another thing is I am not sure whether the UK guy has violated any Chinese law, but he might want to check with a lawyer. Especially I am not sure whether blogger.com has a Chinese operation presence and whether they have obtained all the necessary approvals from the authority (very likely though). And whether the girls that he had sex with are all above 14 and were not against their will. Having sex by way of seduction might be considered as rape under Chinese law. Though I don't think it's likely that one of the girls would come out and report to police. Same unlikely he will be really kicked out of China. But just sometimes the press can get devastating in China. Particularly when the society is stil generally conservative about sex. Without saying the Chinese professor and his supporters might be lobbying.
However, it's very unlikey finally, there will be a win-lose situation. For the UK guy,to avoid any form of unwanted trouble, he should start to talke to someone. But rest assured, it's still not that bad. He can make hay out of these ugly things- he can write a book called Sex and Shanghai, subtitle ''how I fight with the stupid China man". Press will want it. Big bucks will flood to his pocket.
All in all, my view towards the whole thing is, even though this is just a show presented by some clowns, it signals the on-going hostile (mixed with hospitality) attitute some Chinese have towards foreigners, and vice versa.
Seperate from above, personally I would feel horrible (cringe actually) if the guy I sleep with last night is blogging about the thing and about myself. Further, as a Shanghai girl, thanks to the SAS blog, we have a more and more prominent, if not too notorious reputation now.
The rule is, you dig it, there will be a story and noices along the way. If just leave it there, it's a non-story.